With each new mantle (a name for an area of spiritual authority and anointing), you must have an understanding of the responsibility that comes with that authority. Ezekiel 34 should be deeply convicting for anybody that is leading anybody.
We should be deeply humbled by the children that the Lord places into our homes, by those God brings into our ministry. Praying for them, seeing to it that they are in the word, in prayer. Else, when God comes to meet with them, they will not be able to recognize it.
Eze 34:1-3 And the word of the LORD came unto me, saying, (2) Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel, prophesy, and say unto them, Thus saith the Lord GOD unto the shepherds; Woe be to the shepherds of Israel that do feed themselves! should not the shepherds feed the flocks? (3) Ye eat the fat, and ye clothe you with the wool, ye kill them that are fed: but ye feed not the flock.